Keke Palmer’s boyfriend and father of her child, Darius Jackson (also known as Darius Daulton), has faced criticism after publicly shaming the actress for her choice of outfit at an Usher concert. A video clip of Palmer being serenaded by Usher during his Las Vegas residency went viral, but Jackson was not pleased.
Palmer wore a sheer black dress with a black bodysuit underneath, and she was seen dancing and hugging the singer while he performed. In response, Jackson took to Twitter to comment, “It’s the outfit tho….you a mom.”
Twitter users swiftly came to Keke Palmer’s defense, denouncing Jackson’s remarks. One user emphasized that possessiveness doesn’t bode well in relationships, particularly when one is with a famous person. Another person questioned why Jackson felt the need to embarrass Palmer instead of celebrating her enjoyment.
Jackson further reinforced his opinion on Twitter, stating, “We live in a generation where the man of the family doesn’t want the wife and mother to his kids to showcase booty cheeks to please others and he gets told how much of a hater he is.” He added, “This is my family and my representation. I have standards and morals to what I believe. I rest my case.”
Controlling Women’s Attire: A Larger Issue
The incident raises broader questions about men dictating women’s clothing choices. In 2023, why should a woman’s presentation of her body have to align with a man’s idea of modesty? The policing of women’s bodies has persisted throughout history, with societal expectations regarding what women wear, eat, how they carry themselves, and even their reproductive choices. This harmful advice perpetuates the notion that a woman’s sexualization is within her control.
In reality, if a man attempts to dictate a woman’s attire, it is a form of controlling behavior. Such behavior may start with clothing choices but can quickly escalate, affecting various aspects of a woman’s life, including what she eats, does, and who she interacts with.
Moreover, Jackson’s comments also questioned Palmer’s abilities as a mother. Society often places undue pressure on women to conform to specific expectations once they become mothers, stripping them of their autonomy. On the other hand, men typically avoid scrutiny and sexualization, even when they engage in similar behaviors. The double standards surrounding motherhood can lead to increased maternal guilt and stress for women.
While Darius Jackson’s feelings are not invalidated, publicly shaming the mother of his child crossed a line. There are better ways to address concerns without resorting to public humiliation. Jackson’s reaction reveals deeper insecurities and immaturity in handling disagreements.
Who is Darius Jackson and What Does He Do?
Darius Jackson,also known as Darius Daulton, is involved in both the fitness and entertainment industries. He played American Football at Fresno State University during his college years and later worked as an instructor at Inspire Fitness. Currently, he is pursuing a career in acting.
Darius Jackson’s Relationship and Family
Darius Jackson is the brother of actor Sarunas J. Jackson, known for his appearances in HBO’s Insecure and Freeform’s Good Trouble.
He met Keke Palmer through their mutual connection to Insecure. They first became acquainted at a Memorial Day party in 2021, hosted by Insecure creator and star Issa Rae and rapper Diddy. Their relationship blossomed from there.
Darius Jackson is 29 years old, born on December 1, 1993.
He and Keke Palmer have been together since 2021. They made their relationship public on Instagram in August of that year. In a now-deleted post, Darius dedicated a heartfelt tribute to Keke on her birthday, expressing gratitude for their support during challenging times.
The couple welcomed their son, Leodis “Leo” Andrellton Jackson, in February of this year.